Ok so a last bump for this. I had some time before my train yesterday and sat in a parking lot to really try to dial this in. Really think I'm going crazy but I'm having a really hard time getting used to this. My confidence in heavy traffic is really bad/dangerous.
These two are from the same spot w the same cars behind me.
When I adjust mirrors I gauge by seeing a bit of the vehicle in the mirror. This is how I would normally set them up - notice the white buggy isn't even in the main mirror on passenger side:
Ok, so if I adjust the passenger side to see the buggy, this is what I get:
That is kinda useless too. It's too close.
For sanity sake, I took a pic of me standing in front of the mirrors to confirm that neither is magnified. I just dont see how going from a 1500 to a 3500 that is, granted higher, but not wider can be this different.
I looked into adding blindspot detection and it isn't feasible. and DIY is WAY above my paygrade. lol.